Dear DD
Don't sweat the small stuff.
Don't let a day go by without finding the silver lining.
Don't be afraid to travel, see the world, drink it in. Lift your roots and decide where to carefully replant them.
Don't think of exercise as a chore; celebrate that you can walk and run and push and pull, revel in the power and grace of your body.
Don't think that English is enough. Try new languages, roll them around your mouth, taste cultures and people through their words.
Don't forget to be polite and fair to everyone you meet. Also, cultivate a good left hook.
Don't take drugs. Please.
Don't restrict things from your life - live life to the full and enjoy every minute of it. Hearts were made to be broken, bodies made to be enjoyed, chocolate made to be eaten. (Caveat: see above)
Don't underestimate the power of a hug or a smile.
Don't forget to dance. Lots.
Don't read women's magazines. Their world is fictitious. Women have boobs and bums and not-perfect skin and cellulite and off-white teeth and that's all fine. That's all life.
Don't think you need to be anything other than you already are, perfectly you.
And whatever you do, say, think, or feel, don't forget that I love you, unconditionally.
Mummy x
your letter is truly beautiful - real and honest and so very full of a mother's love
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post. Brings a tear to my eye!
ReplyDeleteIt's like Everyone's Free to Wear Sunscreen. Only better.
ReplyDeletethis is a lovely post and lovely advice! an enjoyable read
ReplyDeleteGill xo
ahhhh, lovely! i really enjoyed that letter...great advice for your little'uns.
ReplyDeletei like the bit about women's mags!!!
tamsyn xxx
I'll take that as a compliment and say thanks muchly :D
ReplyDeleteGrrrr... got a bit of a bee in my bonnet about women's mags. Thanks for the lovely comment :D
ReplyDeleteVery good. Think I agree with every word!
ReplyDeleteHey thanks! x
ReplyDeleteI love this - what wonderful information for all children. I've shared this on my facebook and twitter.
ReplyDeleteOh, I love this, just gorgeous xx
ReplyDeleteLovely post, really made me teary and think what I would like to tell my DD
ReplyDeleteoh that is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteall the things I would love to say to my girls
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Man this made me weep: I am going to pringt off a copy for each of my girls and put it in their box.
ReplyDeleteOMG I'm humbled by this comment. Thank you so much xx
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